One of the problems people suffer from as adults is the acceptance of constraints. When we’re kids we tend to dream big with little or no constraints. Anything seems possible once we get bigger! As we grow up we begin to put constraints on ourselves or others add constraints to us and we take our big dream that seemed so possible a few short years ago and we chip away it until it fits with in all these new (and apparently reasonable) constraints.
What we should really be doing is spending our time looking at how to move or remove the constraints that are too small for our dreams. We should be looking at ways not to shrink our dreams, but to grow the space to make it fit!
Why don’t you to write down all the constraints that are currently stopping you live the life you want. Everything that is getting in the way of achieving your goals. Make it a long list and don’t hold back. Anything and everything that gets in the way.
Then write down one thing (just one thing) that you could do to change it! I bet you most of things on your list, most of the constraints that you thought got in the way aren’t really that difficult to overcome!